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Moms Make Christmas Magic

12/19/2020

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Hey you... yes, you. 

The one mentally running through her to-do list every hour to make sure she’s not forgetting - just one more gift. 

The one bouncing from store to store to make sure she has all the ingredients for the kids’ favorite recipe.

The one vacuuming crumbs for the 4th time today because the kids couldn’t wait to dig into their gingerbread houses. 

The one trying to find safe and fun ways to celebrate the holidays with the kids this year.

The one who ordered three more rolls of tape, only to come across seven unopened rolls in the gift wrapping bag.

The one who jolts out of bed at 3 am because “I forgot to move the elf!”

The one who still hasn’t started shopping. 

The one who thought she was done shopping and just realized she forgot someone.

I see you.

You are what makes Christmas magic. 


And I invite you to take a break from whatever is stressing you this year. Cuddle up on the sofa with those little munchkins - who you swear were experiencing the wonder of Christmas for the first time just yesterday, but here they are writing their own lists to Santa. You’re so busy creating the magic for everyone else, but make sure that you soak up some of that magic for yourself. 

Stop thinking about the next thing on your list for a few hours. 
Snap the photo and come back to it later.
Put your phone away. Your e-mails can wait a few hours, and so can the texts. 
Be present.

Because while you are the one making the Christmas magic, you should also be lucky enough to experience it.

xoxo, 

​Jenise
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Thanksgiving Tablescape with Plume Home Decor

11/10/2020

 
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Thanksgiving is around the corner, and in case you are hosting like I am, chances are you are thinking about your table setting and what that will look like. A few years ago, I invested in plates and flatware, and I've been acquiring stemware over the years. But this year, Suzy and Magita from Plume Home Decor reached out to me about styling my table for Thanksgiving. They have these gorgeous placemats and all the items to put together a gorgeous table setting for your holiday table. What I loved about these placemats is that while they are gorgeous and look stunning in this table setting, they are versatile enough for everyday use! They wipe clean and are lightweight. 
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So I sent them photos of my space, and the items I thought we could use, and they got to work. They showed up at my house and worked their magic, and this was the result. This is a service they provide, so if you are in need of table styling for an event, don't hesitate to reach out to them! We also reached out to Melanie from House of Lilac, and she gave us this spectacular magnolia garland, which was the perfect touch for this table. 
I think it turned out to lovely and I can't wait to hear what you all think! 

xoxo, 

​Jenise
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Thanksgiving Menu
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Roast Turkey
Classic Stuffing
Sweet Potato Casserole
Brussels Sprouts
​Corn Souffle
Pumpkin Cheesecake
Salted Caramel 
Pumpkin Spice Syrup
Holiday Mocktail

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2020 Holiday Gift Guide

11/2/2020

 
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This year, I am thinking about gifting earlier than usual. Due to social distancing measures, the threat of rising cases of coronavirus, slower-than-usual mail, and a busy November, I don't particularly want to find myself at a crowded mall a couple days before Christmas.  I also knew that I really wanted to highlight local small businesses. Check out some of these shops and start checking those gifts off your list! ​

Beauty

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Selah Skin Studio - Selah is a holistic skincare studio offering hand batched clean skincare for your skin + soul. They will include a hand written note with your special message on all gift orders. I have been using their face masks and serum for a few years now, and they are incredible. I have also gifted their products on multiple occasions and they are always a hit! 
  • Price Range: Gift Sets starting at $12 and up
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: www.selahskinstudio.com/shop
  • Turnaround time: Ships within 3-4 days
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/18/2020
  • Discounts: Jenise20 for 20% off $25 or more good through Dec 1st
  • Holiday Specials: Beautifully curated gift sets as well as instant e-gift cards.
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Droplets of Love - Jennifer makes unique natural products for all ages for hair, skin, and everyday emotional support, using high quality oils and herbs, as well as pure, steam distilled essential oils. Her products are made from my smoke free home and shipped within the U.S. Aside from that, she offers products from DŌTERRA, which can be purchased on the site. All of her products are made with love and with you in mind. If there is something specific you are looking for, just ask her. Chances are, she can make it to suit your unique situation. Whether you are looking to improve your hair, or you have skin goals that seem unattainable, she can help. Her Persephone night time elixir is a staple in my skincare routine. 
  • Price Range: $12-$100
  • Personalization: No
  • Where to buy: via DM https://www.instagram.com/dropletsoflove_doterra
  • Turnaround time: 7-10 business days
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/1/2020
  • Discounts: 
  • Holiday Specials: Holiday gift baskets with an assortment of products.​
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Mari Cabrera, Mary Kay - This Christmas, give a tired friend the gift of self care with these amazing hydrogel patches! Personal Skincare and Makeup Consulting services - Mary Kay products ranging from personal care to skincare and makeup. Mari has been in business for over 8 years and serves customers across the U.S. She can help you check off gifts for almost anyone on your list! 
  • Price Range: average of $40
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: Via my website or by instagram DM
  • Turnaround time: 2-5 business days
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/10/2020
  • Discounts: #HolidayTopknot for 10% off your entire order
  • Holiday Specials: Custom gift giving and all our promotional holiday products.

Home

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Plume Home Decor - Plume Home Decor is a globally inspired home accessories boutique offering a variety of interior design objects, cushions, florals, and table top decor. They also offer interior design services! Gift cards are also available. They have beautiful, unique pieces, and are always willing to help answer your questions. 
  • Price Range: $30.00-$900.00
  • Personalization: No
  • Where to buy: Phone, Instagram, and Online
  • Turnaround time: All in stock items are available for immediate purchase. Any custom orders currently have a 4-6 week lead time.
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/1/2020​
  • Holiday Specials: On Shop Small Saturday, they will have a store wide 10% off all day for in store purchases only.​​
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The Family Candle Shop - Who doesn't love a candle? This shop, run by a mother/daughter duo, offers 100% soy wax candles. Made with all ingredients made in the USA. Poured in small batches in Miami, Florida. 
  • Price Range: $7.00-$40.00
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: Website or Instagram
  • Turnaround time: 2-5 business days
  • Holiday Specials: They will have a Christmas box launching this month. 
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Bee Made Handcrafted - This small local shop makes beautiful handcrafted items for the home. These make great gifts for almost anyone on your list!
  • Price Range: $12.00 - $85.00
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: Website, Instagram
  • Turnaround time: 1- 2 weeks
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/19/0020
  • Discounts: ATODDLER&ATOPKNOT for 10% off your purchase
  • Holiday Specials: Wreaths, Beaded Garlands, Beaded Rosaries, Charms

Clothing

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Meet Lala - This is a curvy boutique in Miami serving our fellow plus size gals offering sizes XL - 3X. Their mission is to offer the boutique experience to the plus size community, by featuring thoughtfully curated pieces, including everything from their “not so basic” basics to styles for every occasion in sizes XL - 3X (sometimes 4X).
  • Price Range: $28-$60
  • Personalization: No
  • Where to buy: https://shopmeetlala.com/
  • Turnaround time: 1-3 days
  • ​Holiday Specials: Fall/Holiday Collection, which features styles perfect for the upcoming holidays.

Accessories

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Taudrey - Taudrey is an all-female-led jewelry brand focused on connecting and empowering women through meaningfully personalized accessories. Their mission, their brand, and their work ethic are definitely setting a gold standard. I'll have a collaboration launching with them later this month so stay tuned for that! 
  • Price Range: under $100
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: Online at https://www.taudrey.com/
  • Turnaround time: 7-10 business days.
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/11/2020
  • Holiday Specials: Their biggest sale of the year is 30% off sitewide, starting the night of 11/25- 11/30. 
  • Discounts: TOPKNOT10 for 10% off your purchase.
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​Grow & Design - Natalie turned her hobby into a business after losing her job in the pandemic. She creates meaningful pieces - from earrings to decor with polymer clay. She actually sent me this heart shaped diffuser for the car, so I can have my essential oils diffusing when I'm on the go! Because her pieces are made with clay, you can add oils to the earrings, too - especially helpful for these anxiety-ridden times! She prays her pieces can give hope and peace. They are handmade with a lot of love.
  • Price Range: $10 - $40
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: Online at https://www.etsy.com/shop/GrowAndDesign?coupon=TOPKNOT10
  • Turnaround time: 1-2 weeks
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/10/2020
  • Discounts: topknot10 until 12/31/2020 for 10% off your purchase. ​ ​
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So Me Jewelry - So Me Jewelry is a local handmade jewelry company that prides itself in creating on trend affordable pieces. Sophie started her business nearly 4 years ago on a total whim at 15 years old. Since then it has continued to flourish and grow in so many ways. They offer everything from bracelets, earrings and necklaces. This holiday season they're adding rings to their collection as well. They are also in the process of creating brand new packaging since this year many people may be receiving gifts via mail and they want the unboxing experience to be as special as ever. 
  • Price Range: $10-$30
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: https://www.somejewelry.co/
  • Turnaround time: 3-5 business days
  • Holiday Specials: Weekly promotions like gifts with purchase and special discounts. We are also launching our largest collection yet that will include pave charms and personalized items all available in gold, silver and rose gold. 
  • Discount: JENISE10 for 10% off your purchase
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Pretty Girl Charm - A luxury jewelry business that specializes in personalization and making your dream pieces come to life. Lina and Sarah are best friends and mommies to best friends that decided to make their love for dainty jewelry into a full time career. Every piece is gold filled and hand made with love. Whether it is your little one's initial on a gorgeous chain or a “Mommy and Me” set you can share with your little one, their goal is to make something you will always cherish. 
  • Price Range: $60-$150
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: https://prettygirlcharm.com/
  • Turnaround time: 1-2 weeks, some ready to ship
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/15/2020
  • Discounts: ATODDLERANDATOPKNOT15 for 15% off
  • Holiday Specials: Fancy Black Friday sale - 25% off everything on our site and in December - 12 Days of Christmas sale with a special item on sale each day.
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Press Pause Essential Oil Diffuser Bracelets  - Miami Mom, Janelle Fuente, is an advocate of pressing pause on the daily hustle to enjoy our life and the people right in front of us. When she's not encouraging us to care for ourselves through her blogs and on Instagram, she's creating tools such as these "Press Pause" Essential Oil Diffuser Bracelets to empower women with the ability to “press pause” from anywhere at any time to ground and gather ourselves. Janelle is a Miami native, a mompreneur of one (with another on the way) and 10% of her earnings goes back into our local community through charity.
  • Price Range: $22 and up
  • Personalization: No
  • Where to buy: Online 
  • Turnaround time: 5-7 business days
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/15/2020
  • Discounts: presspausemomma (valid until 12/15/20 to to get the bracelets for $20 each when you buy 2 or more)
  • Holiday Specials: Use promo code "presspausemomma" to get 2 bracelets for $40 from now until December 15th

Children's Clothing/Accessories

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GT Stitchery - GT Stitchery offers custom embroidery and personalized gifts. Their products include one of a kind personalized masks and holiday apparel. They will also be offering embroidered hats, baby blankets, masks and towels in our holiday sale. GT Stitchery is proudly run by a Miami mom of three little kids, and everything in their shop is custom made with love.
  • Price Range: $8-$44
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: https://gtstitchery.com/
  • Turnaround time: Two days to two weeks, depending on the product​
  • Discounts: 10% off with code JENISE10 (good until Christmas Day)
  • Holiday Specials: Holiday apparel, such as personalized shirts and dresses. All new embroidered baby blankets, masks, hats and towels will be offered on the website.
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Little Owly - Little Owly is a boutique featuring apparel, accessories, play and decor, bath and wellness, feeding, nursery products and more for newborns and children up to age 6. They carefully curate each item in their store with products from across the globe for little ones to wear, create, explore, play and be inspired everyday. They are a place for families by family.
  • Price Range: $25-$250
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: Online and shop in-store
  • Turnaround time: Most items are available immediately in store and for shipping online. If an item is personalized (ie. embroidered burp cloths, bibs etc.) the turnaround time is between 5-7 days.
  • Last day to order for Christmas: The last day to order online for US shipping is 12/16 (USPS first class and priority mail, however we cannot be held responsible for any third party delays). In-store shopping and online shopping with pick up in-store option will be available until 12/23.
  • Holiday Specials: Celebrating our anniversary weekend on Friday, December 4th - Sunday, December 6th we will be offering 15% off purchase.​
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Caprilina - Caprilina is a baby brand, run by a local mom. They offer personalization of baby clothing items, blankets, and other items for baby. 
  • Price Range: $15-175
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: Online / Over the phone/ in person
  • Turnaround time: Holiday orders will be on a faster turnaround time
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/15/2020
  • Holiday Specials: They are also launching family Christmas Pjs and their own #caprimom line. 

Food & Drink

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Pudding Parlor - A variety of homemade puddings include classic banana pudding, chocolate hazelnut, triple chocolate, and seasonal flavors such as pumpkin gingersnap, cinnamon apple and boozy banana. All puddings are made to order. If you have a small gathering you'd like to take a sweet treat to, this is your ticket to wowing your host (or your guests!). This pudding is homemade and so creamy and delicious. 
  • Price Range: $14 - $56
  • Personalization: No
  • Where to buy: DM via Instagram
  • Turnaround time: 1-2 days
  • Holiday Specials: Seasonal flavors as described above. They will also offer large bowls and individual servings for gatherings. Boozy Banana Pudding will come in beautiful holiday packaging. 
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Obvious Wines - Sustainable, Vegan & Obvious Wines! Because you can NEVER go wrong with a bottle of wine. My fave from this lineup? Bright & Crisp - but be careful, it's kind of like drinking juice! 
  • Price Range: $18 - $25
  • Personalization: No
  • Where to buy: https://obviouswines.com/
  • Turnaround time: 7 days
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/10/2020​
  • Discounts: Use the code BLOG for 10% off (and free delivery for 4+ bottles)
  • Holiday Specials: Collection Pack
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A Taste of Well Being - In a year when so many of us have been focused on health, why not give someone you love a gift that will benefit their health? Alexandra offers personalized nutrition & health programs without fad diets, specific to your health needs. The nutrition programs focus on healthy habits for long-term health success. Each program establishes balanced eating habits with meal plans, nutrition education, virtual consultations, and healthy lifestyle habits.  No matter your health, nutrition, weight loss, weight gain, or lifestyle goals the program will benefit your long-term health success.
  • Price Range: $49 - $2,350
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: email, Instagram DM, or phone call (https://atasteofwellbeing.com/)
  • Turnaround time: 10 days to 6 months
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/18/2020
  • Discounts: 20% discount for the 2020 holidays
  • Holiday Specials: For all local Miami (Coral Gables, South Miami, Coconut Grove, and Pinecrest) all through November and December 2020 nutrition focused meal delivery. Lunch and dinner meal delivery, personalized to your nutritional needs and health goals. Delivered Mondays and Wednesdays.

Online Services

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VxV Consulting - VxV Consulting is a financial coaching firm that provides personalized insight, guidance and trusted advice for women and families. They provide independent, fee-based financial consulting services. They do not sell or manage any investments directly but offer personalized financial consulting services. Initial 30 minute consult is complimentary and can be scheduled directly on their site. What a great gift to give to anyone entering a new stage of life, or even yourself!
  • Price Range: $175 - $2,000
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: https://vxvconsulting.com/
  • Turnaround time: 1 day - 1 month depending on service
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/18/2020​
  • Holiday Specials: 15% off year-end financial planning services if you mention Topknot!

Miscellaneous

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Shop Hello Happy - Shop Hello Happy was born out of a passion to make others smile and well, in this hectic world, to also bring some simplicity and ease to your shopping needs. They believe in gift giving and celebrating the little things in life. They hope you find what you are looking for in their shop and that you even treat yourself to a little something too. Our store carries gift items for home, her, kids and much more!
  • Price Range: $2.00 - $40.00
  • Personalization: Yes
  • Where to buy: Website or via instagram
  • Turnaround time: 3-5 business days unless your item is personalized
  • Last day to order for Christmas: 12/20/2020
  • Discounts: topknot for 10% off your purchase
  • Holiday Specials: 12 days of Christmas Deals

Fall Treats to Try in Miami

10/21/2020

 
Miami isn't necessarily known for being a Mecca of all things fall, but over the years, our balmy city has grown to love all things pumpkin and spice. And while we sure do love us some classic Pumpkin Spice Latte action, there are also some really creative people out there who have put that fall flavor into some of our classic Miami offerings. If you're in the mood for a fresh take on some of the classics, check out these fall treats to try in Miami. 
Pumpkin y Queso Pastelitos from Vicky Bakery
A fall twist on the favorite pastelito de guayaba y queso - perfect for a breakfast treat or a snack with your afternoon cafecito. 
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Pumpkin Gingersnap Banana Pudding from The Pudding Parlor 
I didn't even know how much I liked banana pudding, and this one, homemade and with this deliciously spiced take, has me slightly obsessed. 
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Pumpkin Spice Cake Donut from The Salty
Their brown butter donut is my favorite because I'm not a HUGE donut fan. And this is a pumpkin spice version of that. So good. 
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Pumpkin Pie Milkshake from The Berry Farms
I mean, if I took pumpkin pie and ice cream and threw them in a blender, this is what it might taste like. 
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Pumpkin Spice Key Lime Pie from Bakey Shop
REAL key lime pie is one of my absolute favorite desserts. Bakey Shop has come up with some incredible versions of key lime pie, and this pumpkin spice one was a thousand times better than I could have imagined. A good alternative to a regular pumpkin pie this Thanksgiving!
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I've tried each of these, and they're all amazing. But them get while you can, because fall won't last long (if we truly get it at all in Miami)! 

xoxo, 

​Jenise

Your Next Read | Before We Were Yours

10/19/2020

 
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“No matter how much we may love the melody of a bygone day or imagine the song of a future one, we must dance within the music of today, or we will always be out of step, stumbling around in something that doesn’t suit the moment.” 
― Lisa Wingate, Before We Were Yours
Memphis, 1939. Twelve-year-old Rill Foss and her four younger siblings live a magical life aboard their family’s Mississippi River shantyboat. But when their father must rush their mother to the hospital one stormy night, Rill is left in charge—until strangers arrive in force. Wrenched from all that is familiar and thrown into a Tennessee Children’s Home Society orphanage, the Foss children are assured that they will soon be returned to their parents—but they quickly realize the dark truth. At the mercy of the facility’s cruel director, Rill fights to keep her sisters and brother together in a world of danger and uncertainty.

Aiken, South Carolina, present day. Born into wealth and privilege, Avery Stafford seems to have it all: a successful career as a federal prosecutor, a handsome fiancé, and a lavish wedding on the horizon. But when Avery returns home to help her father weather a health crisis, a chance encounter leaves her with uncomfortable questions and compels her to take a journey through her family’s long-hidden history, on a path that will ultimately lead either to devastation or to redemption.
Before We Were Yours is written by Lisa Wingate and is based off of a real-life child adoption ring, where Georgia Tann, the director of an adoption organization based in Memphis, would kidnap poor children from their families and sell them to wealthy families all over the country. Reading the accounts of the children living in dirty, unsanitary, and precarious situations was heartbreaking. Rill is forced to grow up so quickly, and as much as she fights to save her siblings and keep them close, something always comes up against her.

Reading this brought up some big feelings for me for two reasons: 
  • I imagined someone taking our children away from us just because they didn't see us as fit to be parents. I imagined what my kids would go through, not only being separated from us, but then being separated from one another. And just the thought nearly tore me in two. 
  • I thought about my paternal grandmother. When she was just a girl, her dad left and her mom died. She and her brother were tossed around from place to place, and eventually separated because nobody wanted to take them together. While she was somewhat able to maintain a relationship with him, she was sent to the United States and he remained in Cuba. She mourned the lost relationship with her brother for their entire lives - even after she learned of his death. 
Lisa Wingate has written a heart-wrenching story that tells about the atrocities of this villainous character, but also about the ties that bind us together. It's a story about connection, roots, and understanding where you come from. I thought it was beautifully written and I really found myself completely immersed in the story. I highly recommend checking this one out. 

xoxo, 

​Jenise


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